2Jul 07
When Critics Ask…
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This phrase, popularized by authors Norman L. Geisler and Thomas Howe in their book, “When Critics Ask,” echos the challenge of 1 Peter 3:15 to “be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear.” There are 2 methods of responding to critics in our world. One way is revealed in 1 Peter 3:15 and the other is by the love we have one for another (John 13:35).
Yesterday afternoon during our time of sharing and discussing the Sunday morning message, this very topic came up. We were blessed to have Mr. Mark Dematteo, a long time friend of Dads with an overwhelming zeal for the Lord, in our company. Mr. Dematteo has a boldness for sharing truth that impacts those who fellowship with him. In response to the topic of responding to critics, both Dad & Mr. Dematteo shared a convincing defense of Christianity/Creation which they have used multiple time when witnessing.
1. A Question: When you get ready to make a decision on whether something is right or wrong, what foundation or principles do you base that decision on? Possible ensuing answers have included: the law (example response: If a group of people start a civilization on a desert island and legalize murder, is that right? Why, or why not?), one’s upbringing (example resonse: Some African cultures have been raised with the teaching that cannibalism is acceptable, is it? Why or why not?), what one feels is right (example response: I don’t always feel like going to work. What if someone feels like stealing, does that make it alright?), etc, etc. Dad has found that this question a non-confrontational way to lead one to recognize their “foundation” (or lack thereof) for life.
2. Obejct Lesson: Show an arrowhead or a picture one one and begin asking: Did this arrowhead just happen? Were you there when the arrowhead was created? Do you know who made this arrowhead? So was there a creator? Mr. Dematteo has used this simple object lesson many times in defense of Creationism.
How about you? Have you discovered or learned a creative approach/question for responding when critics ask? The world cries out for those who will listen intently, respond lovingly, and offer truth sincerely. Our understanding will grow as our knowledge of Christ increases. The knowledge of the Holy One brings understanding!

Joshua, A wise man recieves instruction and becomes wiser. The fool has said in his heart there is no God. What is exciting about what you shared is that they are ways of discerning whether someone is, truly desiring wisdom or a fool. Based on their responses you will begin to understand how to best reach them for Christ. Thank you for listening intently, responding lovingly and offering truth sincerely. Dad
Thank you Dad! You stand out in my mind as one who actively pursues others and can discern whether or not they have a listening heart. I recall many a conversation you have had with truth seekers. Thank you for being an inspiration to ‘make disciples.’
What a good way to bring up a worth-while conversation with a stranger, and of course hope to point them in the right direction. Since God is better at defending His truth and his reputation than I ever will be, that makes it important to walk in the Spirit and in the Light of God’s love. There is nothing they can do about a Ghost! I think being ready to give an answer means having fellowship with God (abiding in Christ).
A timely reminder Michael. It is easy to depend upon the wisdom of man more than the person of Christ.