The Wilkes Team is committed to living their lives in such a way so that others are drawn to Christ and God is glorified

Record Snow Fall in Virginia

Oh the memories, the adventures, the camaraderie, the   opportunities, the giggles, the fun, and the way life wondrously slows down as the snow descends!

A stunning canopy of snow covered trees!

Northern Virginia has weathered seven fantastic snow storms this winter: breaking all time national weather service snow accumulation records (since their inception in the late 1800s) across the region. Our little corner of Virginia has seen close to 75 unprecedented inches of snow.

View across the backyard  

Reports and stories have come from far and wide! And though there were the long lists of canceled appointments, changed plans, and government, school, & business closings, it was the resulting family time, Providential protection, reaching out to neighbors, and enduring hardness through somewhat extenuating circumstances that resulted in opportunities for families to draw closer to each other, serve their local communities, and rejoice in the  marvelous doings of our Creator God!

God thundereth marvellously with his voice; great things doeth he, which we cannot comprehend. For he saith to the snow, Be thou on the earth; likewise to the small rain, and to the great rain of his strength (Job 37:5-6).

 Juncos - nice shot Adam!

 A view into the backyard

The snow begins to fall..... ......28 inches later :-)

How much will it be???? Matthew faithfully weathers the snow to bring us a tasty dinner BBQ

A Highlight of the last big snow was having our cousins over to sled on the big tubing hill which was created under the creative leadership of Daniel & Dad!

 

On the top, ready to go.. ...whoosh - down one of the 3 trails ....over the hill and down the otherside!

Refreshed!!

Two teams

Where does one begin??? Being with the Neely Team is always so refreshing and inspiring.

We had many things to accomplish this past weekend. One being lots of planning for the up and coming “Family Encouragement Weekend.” God truly blessed our time of preparation. And we had a lot of fun doing it too!

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Two families that love the Lord and desire to encourage others! Two of our great think tanks :-)

Titus was such a great supporter with all of his sweet smiles

There was one event that happened that surprised us all!  Daniel noticed something in one of the Neely’s live traps out back. He thought he saw a house cat in their cage.  But upon closer observation he realized it was no domestic cat. It was a bobcat!! Everyone scurried up to get a closer look at this wild cat. My was she angry!!! We were glad she was in a cage!

 

Neely Team thank you for making our stay so special! From the meals, music times, games, skits and time around the table reading the word of God together. We are forever grateful to God for each and everyone of you!

Meal times:

The Family Table Pizza.............YUM!

At lunch one day we had a food display contest. Daniel working hard at making his food a work of art! Good try Daniel. :-)  Josh won the display contest!!

Family singing and playing:

 The harp was a highlight during the weekend  Bethany and Sarah!  Beautiful Kathryn!!

 Kenan and Hannah do a nice duet! Make a joyful noise unto the Lord!

Children’s choir and skits:

Learning some singing techniques They were such a great choir

The Father and his beloved son...    ....The father and his faithful servant.....    .....The servant and some wealthy ladies at the auction of the Father's estate.....    ....He who buys the picture of the son takes the entire estate

Other special moments:

I'm Titus The joy of a frienship centered around the Lord!

Story time was a favorite He almost got us!!!

It is so important for like minded families to come together. We all need encouragement to continue on in the course that God has called us to.

In this day and age the family is attacked and bombarded tremendously. It’s only by the grace of God that we will be able to hold the tide and to stand for what is right when others are compromising. May you be encouraged that you are not alone in standing for the truth.

Encouraged!!

“…..but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life (Pr 13:12 ).”

Well, hello!The long awaited moment had come! Numerous obstacles had arisen, plans changed, opportunities to rejoice  abounded, but when at last our van pulled into the driveway of the Stelzl’s home, a season of inspiration and encouragement Tiny Tim brought all of us such great joy!began!

Though the North Carolina skies stood full of thick, dark clouds and heavy rains were just beginning to fall, spirits were lifted & warmed as the fellowship began: laughing  together, making meals, cleaning up the dishes, catching up on each others lives, playing games, and even sharing goals for the new year!

An intense game of Settlers of Catan! Another successful Catan transaction Let's see, what should we trade for....

Reports were heard on how the Lord is opening doors for the Stelzl family to disciple others in their local community! How? Through faithfully studying the Word of God and strengthening their relationships with Him, they are equipped to give an answer to a watching world – praise the Lord!

Ready to stand in the gap! Brothers in Christ

 

Master Engineers! The guys looking at some photos from the Adirondack Mountains!

 Enjoying wholesome fellowship!

During family devotions the next morning, Mr. Stelzl asked everyone to share how the Lord has been working in our lives. We heard testimonies on listening to the Lord, hospitality, discipleship, and how God’s Word is changing hearts.

Thank you Stelzl Family!

Thank you Stelzl family for being a living testimony of hospitality. We felt right at home! May the Lord use the work He is doing in your family as a means of encouraging and discipling many more.

The desire came and it was a tree of life indeed!

Most Satisfied in Him!

The precious hand of Providence never allows but what is within His Sovereign will. Furthermore, as one Pastor puts it, “He is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.” Satisfied in all that He brings our way!

 Ready to go! The long awaited date for departure had come. Bags were packed and confirmation made with our dear hosts. Anticipation was building and all was coming together well until word arrived that our van needed some unexpected major repairs which would deter departure until the following day. The situation was beyond our control – He is trustworthy. It took a choice to rejoice.

Joyfulness: the spontaneous enthusiasm of my spirit when my soul is in fellowship with the Lord.

While sitting around the family table later that evening, we received news that our usual means of care for our dog would not be available due to an unprecedented 12-40 inch snow forecast. Plan after plan was proven futile until a complete change of decision arose, through the gracious offers of our dear hosts, to bring the dog.

Flexibility: Not setting my affections on ideas or plans which could be changed by God or others.

Early next morning, the van was packed with great  Oh My! Thankfully Daniel was on the job! enthusiasm as we anticipated a quick departure. But upon inspecting the van, we were alarmed by an unexplainable flat tire. A motivated team was set to work on inflating the tire followed up by a trip to the gas station to finish the inflation. Seeing obvious roadblocks for a trip that we knew the Lord desired us to make, we were encouraged to press on. That tire remained inflated for the rest of the trip.

Determination: Purposing to accomplish god’s goals in God’s time – regardless of the opposition.

Rainy weather in North Carolina made for potentially adverse driving conditions. While many were taking a much needed nap and a couple others engaged in conversation, all eyes suddenly became alerted to danger. The pickup truck immediately in front of us hydroplaned and so began spinning uncontrollably from one side of the road to the other. Through the direct hand of almighty God our van narrowly missed the spinning truck by but a few inches. His guiding hand moved our van safely to the side and out of the way of danger. Immediately following, each member from the youngest to eldest praised the Lord for His watchful care. Later on, we discovered that two different people were praying for the safety of our trip.

Reverence: Awareness of how God is working through the people and events in my life to produce the character of Christ in me.

As subsequent posts will relate, the Lord blessed the visits with our friends exceedingly more than we could of asked for. Much was accomplished unto the furtherance of the Kingdom of God!

The trials were not over, however. On our return trip home, we were somewhat concerned when the power windows, windshield wipers, turn signals, and radio ceased working. Knowing it could be one of several causes, we pulled off the interstate and stopped by an auto store. The Lord allowed us to get in touch with a friend who is a car mechanic. We discerned the issue not to be a serious one. And after shutting off the car and restarting, all mechanisms were restored.

Cautiousness: Knowing how important right timing is in accomplishing right actions.

Enjoying a late night snow update from our generous neighbor! A final tribute to the divine hand of God upon our trip was seen as we drove into our snow covered court Monday night.  24+ inches of snow covered the back half of our court all the way across our  driveway and up to the front door. Realizing we had an amazing amount of snow to shovel, preparations were made to begin removal. Suddenly, the lights of our neighbor’s truck came shining down upon us. He asked us to move our van over and then proceeded to clear all the snow from in front of our driveway leaving us with a greatly reduced amount of work.

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Love: Giving to others basic needs without having as my motive personal reward – thank you Mr. Vilareal!

For our family, the trials proved to be a strengthening of character as we came to recognize once again our need to fully submit to God’s Sovereign will. For from God’s perspective, it matters not so much our circumstances but rather our response. For, “He is most glorified in us when we are most satisfied in Him.”

A Hospitable Winter Adventure

Hospitality is defined as using what God has given to us to demonstrate His love for others. It is the bringing of guests to a home in which the character of Christ is being lived out on a daily basis.

Imagine having invited over a family for dinner and going through the many preparations to make the evening special when you suddenly receive the news that your guests will be staying the night……….

Dan leads us in a memorable game...Our family was recently the recipients of such sacrificial love and gracious hospitality during a memorable trip to the Potters home. We had a full evening together that included everything from canvassing a local neighborhood in preparation for Potters pending After School Bible Club to playing dutch blitz, eating lemon cake in honor of Lee Jackson Day, learning about the China mission field (thank you Michael), milking the cow, and more!

The all too short evening came to a fast close………or so we  thought. For at an A slippery wintry mix made for an unprecedented dilemma undisclosed time and in a silent but steady motion, snow began to fall. Temperatures continued to drop and the once barren landscape now had approximately 1 inch of snow, sleet, and ice. Now in most cases such circumstances would prove of little concern until you take into consideration the hill one’s The slick driveway - the following morningvehicle must ascend upon departure. The snow continued to fall as plans of departure were discussed. Without having prepared for such an event, the Potters suddenly invited and encouraged us to stay the night – and they were serious!

In reviewing our current dilemma, we did not see much hope of safely departing without considerable effort and risk. Within minutes, the Potters began pulling out sleeping bags, pajamas, pillows, and even ‘tooth brushes :-) .’ It was as if we had stopped at a 1st class hotel. They even pulled out a late night snack of fried chicken! The decision was made to stay.

 Beds were readied A midnight cup of hot chocolate - mmmmmmm good!

Hanging up in the family room of the Potter’s home is their family vision statement. Though the exact wording of this portion slips the memory, in a nutshell,  it is the Potter family’s goal to disciple with the love of Jesus the ones God brings along their path. Watching the whole family work together in harmony re-arranging rooms, preparing for a hearty breakfast the next morning, and making everyone feel so comfortable was wonderful to behold and truly a fulfillment of their family vision!

Cutting up potatoes for hashbrowns the next morning Michael, Joel, & Dan - Eggstraordinary chefs indeed!

Spiritually and physically refreshed Morning Devotions with the Potters - a joy to participate in!

Their home is truly a haven of rest and an inspiration for joy!

A Few Good Links:

Pastor Scott Brown
Pastor Brown leads a family integrated church in North Carolina. His fresh perspective on the church & family will encourage you!
FEW Conference
The Family Encouragement Weekend (FEW) has been of great inspiration and encouragement to our family! See site for more details!

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